Never tell a subject to “smile”

Telling someone to smile in a portrait sitting can cause them to tighten up to an extent that recovery is impossible.  It can end the sitting.  Telling a child to smile and not realizing the child is tightening up can cause a child to be reluctant to be photographed again.  It has caused some of the worst parent-child meltdowns that I have seen.  I’ve seen some doozies.

Do I ever tell anyone to smile?  Yes.  After I have an established relationship with an older subject and they are relaxed I will sometimes try to coach a particular expression out of them.  This is only with a subject at least in their mid teens and after I have all I think I need.  Even with an adult it can end a sitting. Continue reading “Never tell a subject to “smile””